Commitment and Proposal Spells: Turn Your Loving Relationship Into a Lifelong Partnership
You have found the one. You know it in your bones, in your soul. The relationship is loving, stable, and fulfilling. You can see your entire future together—the home, the family, the growing old side by side. You are ready. You have been ready. But there is one agonizing problem: your partner is not proposing. Months turn into years, and the ring never appears. The conversation about marriage is met with vague deflections or outright avoidance. You are left in a painful limbo, wondering if the commitment you crave will ever come, or if you are wasting your time waiting for someone who will never be ready.
If this is the heartache you are living with, I want you to know that your dream of marriage is not out of reach. My name is Baba Ali, and for over 30 years, I have been a traditional African spiritual healer specializing in matters of love and commitment. The commitment spells I cast are designed to do one powerful thing: open your partner’s heart to the idea of lifelong partnership and inspire them to take the step toward marriage. A spell to make him propose is not about coercion or manipulation; it is about removing the fears, doubts, and spiritual blockages that are preventing your partner from embracing the future you both deserve.
Your patience and your love are admirable, but you do not have to wait forever. With the right spiritual intervention, the proposal you have been dreaming of can become a reality in a matter of days.
The Spiritual Blocks That Prevent Commitment
Why won’t they propose? This question haunts you. On the surface, your partner may offer various excuses: they want to be more financially stable, they are not ready, they do not believe in the institution of marriage, or they simply need more time. But beneath these surface explanations, there are often deeper spiritual and emotional blocks that are the true obstacles to commitment.
Understanding these blocks is the first step in removing them. Here are the most common spiritual barriers to commitment:
- Fear of Loss of Freedom: Many people, especially men, have a deep-seated fear that marriage will mean the end of their independence and personal freedom. This fear is often irrational and based on cultural conditioning rather than reality, but it is powerful enough to prevent them from proposing, even when they love their partner deeply.
- Fear of Failure: If your partner has witnessed failed marriages—perhaps their own parents’ divorce or the breakups of friends—they may carry a subconscious fear that marriage is destined to fail. This fear makes them hesitant to commit, not because they do not love you, but because they are afraid of repeating the pain they have seen others experience.
- Spiritual Immaturity: Some people are simply not spiritually or emotionally mature enough to understand the value and beauty of lifelong commitment. They are stuck in a perpetual state of adolescence, unable to envision themselves as a spouse or parent. This immaturity is a spiritual block that can be healed and transformed.
- External Negative Influences: Sometimes, the hesitation to commit comes from outside the relationship. Friends who are commitment-phobic, family members who disapprove of you, or even a past lover who still has a spiritual hold on your partner can all create energetic interference that prevents the proposal from happening.
- Lack of Spiritual Urgency: Your partner may love you and even intend to marry you “someday,” but they lack the sense of urgency to do it now. They are comfortable with the status quo and do not feel the pressing need to formalize the commitment. This lack of urgency can stretch on indefinitely if not addressed.
A marriage proposal spell works to identify and dissolve these specific blocks. It does not create feelings that are not there; rather, it clears away the obstacles so that your partner’s true love and desire for you can lead them naturally to the decision to propose.
How a Commitment Spell Opens the Heart to Marriage
The spiritual work involved in a commitment spell for boyfriend (or girlfriend) is both subtle and profound. It operates on multiple levels to transform your partner’s mindset and heart, guiding them toward the realization that marriage to you is not just a good idea—it is the best and most important decision they will ever make.
Here is how the spell works its magic:
- Dissolving Fear and Doubt: The spell begins by targeting the fears and doubts that are holding your partner back. Through powerful spiritual cleansing, these negative emotions are gently dissolved. Your partner will begin to feel a sense of peace and confidence about the idea of marriage. The fear of loss of freedom is replaced by an understanding that true freedom is found in a committed, loving partnership. The fear of failure is replaced by faith in the strength of your love.
- Awakening a Vision of the Future: The spell works to plant vivid, positive visions of your shared future in your partner’s mind. They will begin to dream about your wedding day, about building a home together, about raising children with you. These visions will feel exciting and desirable rather than frightening. The spell helps them to see marriage not as an ending, but as the beginning of the most beautiful chapter of their life.
- Creating Spiritual Urgency: One of the most powerful aspects of the spell is its ability to create a sense of urgency. Your partner will begin to feel that waiting any longer to propose is a mistake. They will feel a growing, undeniable need to secure your commitment before they risk losing you. This urgency is not born of panic, but of a deep recognition of your value and the fear of living without you.
- Neutralizing External Interference: If there are negative external influences—friends, family, or past lovers—the spell creates a protective barrier around your partner’s decision-making process. It weakens the power of these outside voices and helps your partner to think clearly and independently about what they truly want, which is a life with you.
- Inspiring the Proposal: The culmination of all this spiritual work is the proposal itself. Your partner will feel a powerful, overwhelming desire to ask you to marry them. They will begin planning the proposal, shopping for a ring, and preparing to take the step that will bind your lives together forever. The spell does not script the exact words or circumstances, but it ensures that the proposal happens, and happens soon.
My Process: From Waiting to “Yes”
When you decide to work with me to bring about your partner’s proposal, here is the sacred journey we will take together:
Step 1: The Commitment Consultation
We begin with a free, confidential consultation where you will tell me about your relationship. How long have you been together? Have you discussed marriage? What reasons has your partner given for not proposing? I will use my spiritual insight to identify the specific blocks that are preventing your partner from committing. This diagnosis is crucial because it allows me to tailor the spell to your unique situation.
Step 2: Gathering the Sacred Materials
Based on our consultation, I will determine which sacred materials are needed for your commitment ritual. These may include herbs that promote courage and decision-making, oils that open the heart, candles to represent the union of marriage, and personal items that create a strong spiritual link to your partner. As always, my spiritual labor is never for sale. Your only cost is for these essential ritual materials.
Step 3: The Commitment Ritual
In my sacred space, I will perform a powerful, focused ritual designed to open your partner’s heart to commitment. This involves deep prayer, chanting, and energy work aimed at dissolving their fears and awakening their desire to marry you. I call upon the spirits of love, commitment, and partnership to intervene on your behalf, guiding your partner toward the decision to propose.
Step 4: The Proposal Period (3-7 Days)
Within three to seven days of the ritual’s completion, you will see a dramatic shift in your partner’s attitude toward marriage. They may suddenly bring up the topic of engagement. They may start asking subtle questions about your ring preferences. They may begin looking at rings or venues. The spell is working, building momentum toward the moment when they will get down on one knee and ask you to be their spouse. For many of my clients, the actual proposal happens within two to three weeks of the spell’s casting.
Real Love, Real Proposals: Testimonials
“I had been with my boyfriend for 6 years. SIX YEARS. We lived together, we had a dog, we were basically married in every way except legally. But he would not propose. Every time I brought it up, he would say ‘soon’ or change the subject. I was heartbroken and felt like I was wasting my time. I found Baba Ali and decided to try his commitment spell. Less than two weeks after the ritual, my boyfriend took me to our favorite restaurant and proposed. I am now planning my dream wedding. This spell changed my life.” – Emily R., Denver, CO
“My girlfriend and I had been together for 4 years. I knew I wanted to marry her, but I was terrified. My parents had a terrible divorce, and I was scared of repeating their mistakes. I was stuck. My girlfriend was getting frustrated, and I didn’t blame her. She contacted Baba Ali without telling me. About a week later, I woke up one morning and just knew. The fear was gone. I felt ready. I felt excited. I proposed that same week. I don’t know what happened, but I am so grateful for it.” – James M., Boston, MA
“I am 38 years old, and I was starting to think marriage just wasn’t in the cards for me. My boyfriend kept saying he ‘didn’t believe in marriage’ even though we had been together for 3 years. I was devastated. I contacted Baba Ali, and he was so understanding. He performed the marriage proposal spell, and within 10 days, my boyfriend sat me down and said he had been thinking a lot, and he realized that he wanted to spend his life with me officially. He proposed a month later. We are getting married in the spring.” – Rachel K., Portland, OR
Frequently Asked Questions About Commitment and Proposal Spells
1. Is it wrong to use a spell to make someone propose?
This is an understandable concern, and I want to address it directly. A commitment spell does not force your partner to do anything against their will or true nature. If your partner does not love you or does not want to be with you, no spell can change that. What the spell does is remove the irrational fears, external pressures, and spiritual blocks that are preventing them from acting on the love they already feel. It helps them to see clearly and make the decision that their heart truly wants to make. It is not manipulation; it is spiritual clarity.
2. What if my partner has explicitly said they never want to get married?
People often say things they do not truly mean, especially when they are operating from a place of fear or past trauma. The spell works to heal that fear and trauma. I have had many clients whose partners initially said they “never” wanted to marry, only to propose within weeks of the spell. However, during our consultation, I will assess whether your partner’s resistance is a spiritual block that can be removed, or if it is a fundamental incompatibility. I will always be honest with you about what I believe is possible.
3. How soon after the spell will the proposal happen?
While every situation is unique, most of my clients see the proposal within two to four weeks of the spell’s completion. The initial signs—changes in attitude, conversations about the future, ring shopping—typically begin within 3-7 days. The actual proposal follows shortly after, once your partner has had time to plan something special.
4. What if my partner proposes but then gets cold feet?
The spell is designed to create lasting commitment, not a temporary impulse. When your partner proposes after the spell, it is because their heart and mind have been truly opened to the idea of marriage. The fears and doubts have been dissolved, not just suppressed. That said, I also provide spiritual guidance on how to nurture and maintain that commitment through the engagement period and into marriage.
5. Can this spell work for same-sex couples?
Absolutely. Love is love, and commitment is commitment, regardless of gender. I am proud to serve the LGBTQ+ community, and my spells are equally effective for same-sex couples seeking to formalize their partnerships through marriage or civil union.
6. What if we have been together for a very long time? Is it too late?
It is never too late. In fact, long-term relationships are often the perfect candidates for this spell because the love and compatibility are already proven. The only thing missing is the formal commitment, and that is exactly what the spell is designed to bring about. I have helped couples who have been together for 10, 15, even 20 years finally take the step toward marriage.
Your Happily Ever After Is Waiting. Let’s Make It Official.
You have been patient. You have been loving. You have been faithful. Now it is time for your partner to step up and give you the commitment you deserve. You do not have to wait another year, another month, or even another week in uncertainty.
Contact me today for a free, confidential consultation. Let’s talk about your relationship, and let’s create the spiritual plan that will bring you the proposal—and the marriage—you have been dreaming of.
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