My dear friend, if you are reading these words, I know your heart is heavy. A silence has fallen between you and the one you love, a silence enforced by the cold, digital wall of a block. On your phone, on social media, everywhere you turn, the connection is severed. It is a uniquely painful experience in our modern world, a rejection that feels so total and absolute. You are likely feeling a storm of emotions: confusion, hurt, anger, and a deep, aching despair. You may be asking yourself, “Is this it? Is it truly over?”

I am here to tell you, with the warmth and certainty of a thousand suns, that this is not necessarily the end. My name is Baba Ali, and for over thirty years, I have dedicated my life to the ancient art of African love spell casting. I have been a vessel for the spirits, a guide for countless souls navigating the turbulent waters of love and loss. I have seen relationships that seemed utterly shattered, where all communication was cut off, blossom once more into unions of profound love and understanding. So, to answer your question, can you get your ex back if they blocked you? Yes, it is possible. It is not a simple path, but it is a path that exists, and I am here to walk it with you.

In my long years of practice, I have learned that a block is not always a final door slamming shut. More often, it is a desperate cry for space, a shield put up against overwhelming pain, or a misguided attempt to control a situation that feels chaotic. The digital silence is loud, yes, but it does not erase the history, the connection, and the love that you shared. Those things are real, they have energy, and they continue to exist in the spiritual realm, even when the physical and digital connections are broken. We will explore both the spiritual and the practical steps you can take to heal this rift and invite your beloved back into your life.

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Understanding the Block: A Spiritual Perspective

In the physical world, a block is a simple, technical action. A few taps on a screen, and you are gone from their view. But in the spiritual realm, my friend, the act of blocking is a far more complex and significant event. It is a powerful energetic statement, a wall erected not just in the digital space, but in the heart and mind of your ex. To truly understand how to get your ex back if they blocked you, we must first look beyond the technology and see the spiritual currents at play.

The Energetic Wall of Pain

Think of the connection between two people who have loved each other as a vibrant, flowing river of energy. This river carries shared memories, emotions, and a deep, psychic bond. When a breakup happens, this river becomes turbulent and choked with the debris of pain, anger, and misunderstanding. The act of blocking is an attempt to dam this river. Your ex, feeling overwhelmed by the intensity of these emotions, is trying to stop the flow. They believe that by cutting off the external signs of the connection—your messages, your profile, your presence—they can stop the internal pain they are feeling.

However, energy cannot be destroyed, only redirected. The dam may stop the river’s visible flow, but the pressure builds behind it. The love, the memories, the unresolved feelings—they are all still there, swirling in their subconscious. This is a crucial point to understand. The block is not a sign of indifference; it is often a sign of the exact opposite. It is a sign that the connection is so powerful and the emotions so intense that they feel they have no other way to cope. They are not trying to erase you; they are trying to catch their breath.

A Cry for Energetic Space

From a spiritual standpoint, being blocked is also a profound, albeit unconscious, cry for energetic space. Every interaction, every message, every time they see your name, it sends ripples through their auric field. If the breakup was contentious or painful, these ripples can feel like constant, jarring shocks to their system. They are trying to create a pocket of stillness in the midst of an emotional hurricane. This is not necessarily a rejection of you as a person, but a rejection of the pain they associate with the current state of your connection.

I have seen this many times in my work. A client will come to me, heartbroken, saying, “Baba Ali, my ex blocked me, they must hate me.” But when we look deeper, through spiritual readings and the wisdom of the ancestors, we often find that the ex is in a state of deep internal conflict. They miss my client terribly, but they are also terrified of the pain of the breakup. The block is their shield. It is their way of saying, “I cannot handle this energy right now. I need silence to heal.” Understanding this changes the dynamic entirely. It moves you from a place of feeling rejected to a place of compassion, which is a much more powerful position from which to begin the work of reconciliation.

The Illusion of Control

Finally, the act of blocking is an attempt to reclaim a sense of control. Breakups can make us feel powerless, as if our lives are spiraling out of our grasp. By blocking you, your ex is making a decisive, unilateral move. It is an action they can control in a situation where they feel they have none. They can’t control their feelings, they can’t undo the past, but they can press that block button. It provides a temporary, illusory sense of power and finality.

But this control is a fragile one. It is a control over the external, not the internal. They can stop your messages from reaching their phone, but they cannot stop your memory from surfacing in their mind. They can prevent you from seeing their posts, but they cannot erase the energetic cord that still connects your spirits. This is where our work begins. By focusing on the spiritual connection that transcends any digital barrier, we can begin to gently dissolve that wall of pain and fear, not by force, but by transforming the energy between you from one of turmoil to one of peace, love, and healing. This is the first step on the path to getting your ex back, even after they have blocked you.

Overcoming digital barriers: Spiritual light breaks through a blocked notification, symbolizing hope for reconnection.
Overcoming digital barriers: Spiritual light breaks through a blocked notification, symbolizing hope for reconnection.

The First Step: Creating a Vortex of Positive Energy

Now that we understand the spiritual reality behind the block, you may be feeling a spark of hope. That is good. Hope is the fertile ground where miracles can grow. But hope alone is not enough. We must take action, and the very first action does not involve your ex at all. It involves you. Before we can even think about reaching out or breaking through that digital wall, we must transform your own energetic state. You see, right now, your energy is likely a whirlwind of pain, desperation, and anxiety. If you were to somehow break through the block in this state, what energy would you be sending them? It would be an energy that confirms their decision to block you. It would be an energy that says, “Yes, I am chaotic and in pain, and I need you to fix it.”

This is not the way, my dear friend. The path to reconciliation begins with you becoming a beacon of light, a vortex of positive, calm, and loving energy. This is not for them; this is for you. But the beautiful, magical truth is that as you transform your own energy, you will begin to affect the energy around you, including the energetic space of your ex. They will feel it on a subconscious, spiritual level, even with the block in place.

The Power of Spiritual Cleansing

First, we must cleanse your aura of the negative residue of the breakup. This is like clearing the debris from that turbulent river we spoke of earlier. There are many ways to do this. One simple but powerful technique is a salt bath. Salt is a potent spiritual cleanser. As you soak in the water, visualize all the pain, anger, and sadness being drawn out of your body and into the water. When you are done, as you let the water drain, visualize all that negativity flowing away, leaving you clean and pure.

Meditation is another essential tool. Find a quiet space, close your eyes, and focus on your breath. With each inhale, imagine you are breathing in pure, golden light, the very essence of love and healing. With each exhale, imagine you are releasing the darkness, the anxiety, the obsession. Do not try to fight your thoughts or feelings. Simply observe them, acknowledge them, and let them go. In these moments of stillness, you are creating a sacred space within yourself, a space where peace can begin to take root. This practice will help you to detach from the outcome, which is ironically one of the most powerful things you can do to attract a positive outcome.

Radiating Love, Not Lack

Right now, you are feeling the lack of your ex. Every thought is about their absence. This creates an energy of neediness and desperation. We must shift this to an energy of love. Instead of focusing on what you have lost, focus on the love you still have within you. Send that love out into the universe, without expectation. Send it to your friends, your family, to nature, to yourself. And yes, you can even send it to your ex, but not in a needy, grasping way. Send it as a gentle, unconditional blessing. Wish them peace. Wish them healing. Wish them happiness, even if it is not with you.

This is a profound energetic shift. You are moving from a state of “I need you to complete me” to a state of “I am whole and complete, and I have love to give.” This is an incredibly attractive energy. It is the energy of a person who is confident, self-assured, and spiritually grounded. This is the person your ex fell in love with. By returning to this state, you are not manipulating them; you are reminding them of the beautiful soul they were drawn to in the first place. This positive energy will begin to seep through the cracks of that energetic dam they have built, not as a flood, but as a gentle, persistent, and loving mist that will begin to soften their heart.

Practical Steps to Take (and What to Avoid) When You’ve Been Blocked

While the spiritual work is the foundation, we live in a physical world, and there are practical actions that must align with our energetic intentions. When you’ve been blocked, the silence can be deafening, and the urge to do something can be overwhelming. However, many of the actions that feel instinctive in this moment are the very things that will push your ex further away. The key here is to act with intention, wisdom, and restraint. This is not about playing games; it is about respecting their need for space while honoring your own dignity.

What You Absolutely Must Avoid

Let us first speak of the things you must not do. These actions come from a place of panic and will only reinforce their decision to block you. They will validate the feeling of being overwhelmed that led them to erect the wall in the first place. You must resist these urges with all your strength.

First, do not try to circumvent the block. Do not immediately try to contact them through other means. Do not create a new social media profile to send them a message. Do not ask your mutual friends to act as messengers. Do not show up at their home or workplace. I cannot stress this enough. This behavior is a violation of the boundary they have set. Even if your intentions are pure, it will be perceived as desperate and disrespectful, confirming to them that they made the right choice. It is the spiritual equivalent of trying to smash the dam with a hammer. It will only create more chaos and damage.

Second, do not engage in public displays of distress. Do not post sad, cryptic, or angry messages on your own social media profiles, hoping they will see them through a friend’s account. This includes sad song lyrics, passive-aggressive quotes, or dramatic posts about your heartbreak. This behavior radiates an energy of instability and drama. Instead, your public persona, both online and off, should be one of grace, strength, and positivity. You are focusing on your own healing and growth, remember? Your social media should reflect that journey. Think of it as tending to your own garden, making it so beautiful and vibrant that others, including your ex, will eventually be drawn to its beauty.

Crumbling walls of separation reveal a path to reconciliation and renewed love.
Crumbling walls of separation reveal a path to reconciliation and renewed love.

What You Should Do Instead: The No-Contact Rule

So, what should you do? The most powerful practical step you can take is to embrace a period of strict no-contact. This is not a punishment or a tactic. It is a gift of space to both your ex and, most importantly, to yourself. It is the practical application of creating that energetic stillness we spoke of earlier. The no-contact period should be absolute. No calls, no texts, no emails, no social media interactions. The length of this period can vary, but I generally recommend at least 30 days. This gives the intense, raw emotions of the breakup and the block a chance to subside for both of you.

During this time, you are not simply waiting by the phone. You are actively engaged in the spiritual work we have discussed. You are cleansing your energy, meditating, and rediscovering your own inner light. You are reconnecting with friends, pursuing your hobbies, and investing in your own personal growth. This is a time for you to remember who you are outside of the relationship. As you do this, you are not only healing but also rebuilding your self-esteem and your sense of wholeness. You are shifting from a place of pleading, “Please come back,” to a powerful, silent statement of, “I am healing and growing, and my life is full and beautiful.”

This period of no-contact does two crucial things. It gives your ex the space they have so desperately asked for, allowing their anger and pain to cool. It shows them that you are capable of respecting their boundaries, which is a vital component of rebuilding trust. And second, it gives them a chance to wonder about you. When you suddenly go silent, when you are no longer trying to get their attention, their curiosity will naturally begin to pique. They will start to wonder what you are doing, how you are feeling, and whether they have made a mistake. This is the beginning of the shift. This is the space where they can begin to miss you. And it is all accomplished not by chasing, but by gracefully and intentionally stepping back.

The Power of Patience and Personal Growth

My dear friend, I know that the word “patience” is perhaps the most difficult one to hear right now. When your heart is aching, every moment feels like an eternity. You want to fix things now. But in the realm of the spirit and the heart, time moves differently. Hasty actions, born of panic, will only sow more discord. Patience is not passive waiting; it is an active, powerful state of being. It is the quiet confidence that you are on the right path, and that you are allowing the universe, the spirits, and your own inner strength to do their sacred work. It is the deep understanding that you cannot rush the healing of a wound, nor can you force a flower to bloom before its season.

Embracing the Journey of Self-Discovery

This period of no-contact, this time of patience, is a profound opportunity for personal growth. It is a gift of time to rediscover and rebuild the most important relationship in your life: the one you have with yourself. Ask yourself, in the course of your relationship, did you lose parts of yourself? Did you set aside hobbies, friendships, or dreams to please your partner? Now is the time to reclaim them. Reconnect with the people and activities that bring you joy and a sense of purpose, independent of your ex. This is not about “showing them” that you are happy without them. It is about genuinely becoming happy and whole on your own.

This journey of self-discovery is a powerful energetic statement. It shifts your vibration from one of dependency to one of self-reliance and inner strength. When you are radiating this energy, you become magnetic. People, opportunities, and yes, even ex-lovers, are drawn to those who are centered, passionate, and alive with their own purpose. Your ex fell in love with a whole person, and by returning to that state of wholeness, you are not only healing yourself but also recreating the very conditions that allowed love to blossom in the first place. This is a far more potent strategy for reconciliation than any number of desperate texts or pleading voicemails.

The Spiritual Significance of Patience

From a spiritual perspective, patience is an act of faith. It is a declaration to the universe that you trust the process. You are releasing your tight grip on the outcome and allowing for a higher wisdom to guide the situation. This act of surrender is incredibly powerful. When you are constantly pushing, striving, and worrying, you are creating a chaotic, resistant energy. When you step back, breathe, and trust, you create a space for grace to enter. You are telling the spirits, “I have done my part. I am healing myself, I am radiating love, and I am open to the best possible outcome, whatever that may be.”

This does not mean you are giving up. It means you are giving up the struggle. You are aligning yourself with the flow of the universe, rather than trying to swim against the current. It is in this state of patient, active faith that miracles often occur. Your ex, feeling the cessation of your anxious energy and the emergence of your calm, confident presence (even from a distance), will feel the energetic shift. The pressure behind the dam will lessen. The turbulent waters will begin to calm. And in that newfound stillness, the memory of the love you shared will have space to surface, not as a source of pain, but as a gentle, cherished warmth. This is the sacred work of patience. It is the quiet, steady, and ultimately irresistible force that can turn the tide and create the possibility for a beautiful, lasting reunion.

How Love Spells Bridge the Divide

It is at this point, when you have begun the work of spiritual cleansing and personal growth, that we can introduce a powerful ally in your journey of reconciliation: the ancient art of love spells. I know that for some, the term “spell” can conjure images of manipulation or control. This is a deep misunderstanding of this sacred practice. The work I do is not about forcing someone to act against their will. That would be a violation of their spirit and would only create a hollow, artificial bond. True love cannot be coerced. Instead, the love spells I cast are a form of intense, focused spiritual energy work. They are a way of amplifying the positive, loving energy you are already cultivating and directing it to heal the rift between you and your beloved.

Unlocking the door to a second chance: A mystical key appears, ready to open the path to your ex's heart.
Unlocking the door to a second chance: A mystical key appears, ready to open the path to your ex’s heart.

Cleansing the Path and Opening the Heart

Think of the energetic connection between you and your ex. As we have discussed, it is likely choked with the negative energy of the breakup. My work begins by cleansing this energetic pathway. Using ancient rituals, sacred herbs, and the invocation of powerful, benevolent spirits, I work to clear away the anger, the hurt, and the misunderstanding that are clouding your ex’s heart and mind. This is like clearing the debris from the river, allowing the pure, clean water of your original love to flow freely once more. This cleansing can soften their heart and dissolve the defensiveness that led them to block you in the first place.

Once the path is cleansed, the next step is to send a powerful wave of positive, loving energy to your ex. This is not a demanding or needy energy. It is a gentle, persistent reminder of the love and happiness you once shared. It is an energy that encourages them to remember the good times, to see you in a positive light, and to feel a renewed sense of warmth and connection towards you. This is where the spells to get an ex back come in. These are not about creating a new love, but about rekindling a love that already exists, a love that has been buried under the pain of the breakup. The spells work to amplify the whispers of their own heart, the part of them that still loves you and misses you.

How the Spells Work Across the Distance

Many people ask me, “Baba Ali, how can a spell work when my ex has blocked me and is far away?” This is a beautiful question, and the answer lies in the nature of spiritual energy. Energy is not bound by physical distance or digital barriers. Just as the sun’s warmth can be felt from millions of miles away, the energy of a spell can touch the heart and spirit of a person no matter where they are. The block on your phone is a physical barrier, but it has no power in the spiritual realm where this work is done.

When I perform a ritual for you, I am connecting with your spirit and the spirit of your ex on an energetic plane. I become a conduit for the loving, healing energy of the universe, directing it to where it is needed most. Your ex will not know consciously that a spell has been cast. They will simply begin to feel a shift within themselves. They may find themselves thinking of you more often, and in a more positive way. The anger they felt may begin to subside, replaced by a sense of nostalgia or longing. They may have dreams of you. They might suddenly feel the urge to unblock you, not because they are being forced, but because the energetic wall of pain has been dissolved, and their heart is naturally opening to the possibility of connection once more. This is the gentle, powerful, and sacred work of love spells. It is a partnership between your own efforts at personal growth and the spiritual forces that are ready and willing to help you heal your relationship. If you are ready to explore this path, I offer a free consultation to discuss your situation and how I may be able to help.

Re-establishing Contact: A Gentle Approach

There may come a time, after a period of dedicated spiritual work and personal growth, and perhaps with the gentle assistance of a love spell, that the block is removed. Or, you may receive a sign from the universe that the time is right to make a gentle attempt at contact. This is a delicate and crucial moment in your journey of reconciliation. The way you handle this first point of contact can set the tone for everything that follows. The goal is not to immediately dive back into the problems of the past, but to create a new, positive association with your presence in their life. The energy must be calm, confident, and completely free of pressure.

The First Message: A Masterclass in Restraint

If the block is removed, or if you have decided that enough time has passed and the energy feels right, the first message you send is of the utmost importance. It should be short, positive, and it must not ask for anything. This is not the time to ask for an explanation for the block. It is not the time to profess your undying love or to rehash old arguments. The purpose of this first message is simply to re-open the lines of communication in a light and easy way. It should be a message that does not require a long or emotionally heavy response.

A simple, warm message that references a shared memory or an inside joke can be very effective. For example, “I was just listening to that song we used to love and it made me smile. Hope you’re doing well.” Or, if you know they have a particular interest, “I saw that your favorite team won the championship and I thought of you. Congratulations!” Notice that these messages do not ask a question. They do not put your ex on the spot. They are simply a gentle, positive presence in their inbox. They are easy to respond to, but they do not demand a response. This removes all pressure and makes it much more likely that they will reply in a positive way.

The Importance of a New Narrative

When you do re-establish contact, it is vital that you do not immediately fall back into the old patterns and dynamics of your previous relationship. You have done the work to become a new, more whole version of yourself. Now is the time to let that new energy shine. Keep your initial conversations light and focused on positive, forward-looking topics. Talk about the new hobbies you have taken up, the new things you have learned, the positive changes you have made in your life. This is not about bragging; it is about demonstrating that you are no longer the person they left behind. You are a person who is growing, evolving, and creating a happy, fulfilling life for yourself.

This creates a new narrative. The old narrative was one of pain, conflict, and breakup. The new narrative is one of growth, positivity, and new beginnings. By consistently bringing this new, positive energy to your interactions, you are essentially inviting them to be a part of this new chapter of your life. You are showing them that a future with you does not mean a return to the pain of the past, but an opportunity to build something new and beautiful together. This is how you move from simply getting your ex back to creating a relationship that is stronger, healthier, and more resilient than it was before. And if you find that you need guidance in navigating these delicate conversations, remember that I am here to help. My experience in marriage reconciliation spells and relationship healing can provide you with the wisdom and support you need to rebuild that bridge of communication, one gentle step at a time.

Rebuilding the Foundation: The Path to Lasting Reconciliation

Getting your ex to unblock you and re-open the lines of communication is a significant victory, a testament to your patience and spiritual work. However, it is not the final destination. It is the beginning of a new, and perhaps more challenging, phase: rebuilding the trust and intimacy that were shattered by the breakup. This is where so many couples falter. They are so relieved to be back in contact that they rush back into the old relationship, with all its unresolved issues and unhealed wounds. This is a recipe for another, often more painful, breakup. To create a lasting reconciliation, you must consciously and intentionally build a new foundation for your relationship, a foundation built on honesty, mutual respect, and a shared vision for the future.

A spiritual ritual to dissolve digital blocks and reopen communication with your ex.
A spiritual ritual to dissolve digital blocks and reopen communication with your ex.

Taking it Slow: The Courtship of a New Relationship

Even though you have a shared history, it is wise to approach this new phase as if you are starting a new relationship. This means taking things slow. Do not immediately fall back into the old routines of constant texting, spending every weekend together, or assuming a level of intimacy that has not yet been re-earned. Instead, think of it as a new courtship. Start with short, casual dates, like meeting for coffee or a walk in the park. Keep the initial interactions light and focused on getting to know each other again. You have both changed during your time apart. Give each other the space and the grace to discover the new people you have become.

This slow, deliberate pace serves several important purposes. It prevents you from being overwhelmed by the intensity of your history. It allows you to rebuild trust in a gradual, organic way. And it gives you both the opportunity to assess whether this new relationship is truly what you want. It is a process of discovery, not a race to the finish line. By moving slowly, you are building a foundation that is strong enough to withstand the inevitable challenges that any relationship will face. You are not just getting your ex back; you are building a relationship that has the potential to last a lifetime.

Open and Honest Communication: Healing the Wounds of the Past

At some point, as you rebuild your connection, it will be necessary to address the issues that led to the breakup in the first place. This is a conversation that must be handled with immense care and compassion. It is not about blaming or shaming. It is about both of you taking responsibility for your part in the breakdown of the relationship and creating a plan to ensure that you do not repeat the same mistakes. This is a time for radical honesty, both with your partner and with yourself.

I often guide couples through this process, helping them to create a safe space where they can express their feelings without fear of judgment. It is important to use “I” statements, such as “I felt hurt when…” rather than “You always…” This focuses on your own experience and prevents your partner from becoming defensive. The goal is not to win an argument, but to understand each other on a deeper level. This is also a time to create new agreements for your relationship. How will you handle conflict in the future? How will you ensure that you are both feeling heard and respected? By having these conversations consciously and intentionally, you are not just healing the wounds of the past; you are creating a new, more resilient framework for your future together. This is the heart of the work I do, and it is the key to transforming a painful breakup into a powerful and lasting love story. For a deeper understanding of this process, I invite you to read my complete guide to getting your ex back.

When the Block is a Sign of Something Deeper

My dear friend, while I have spent much of this time reassuring you that a block is often a temporary and reversible act, born of pain and a need for space, I must also speak a difficult truth. Sometimes, a block is a sign of something deeper, a clear and unequivocal message that the relationship is not, and perhaps should not be, rekindled. As a spiritual guide, my commitment is to the truth and to your highest good, and sometimes that good lies in letting go. Recognizing these situations is an act of profound self-respect and wisdom. It is the moment you choose your own peace over a painful and fruitless pursuit.

The Presence of Abuse or Toxicity

If your relationship was characterized by abuse—be it emotional, verbal, or physical—a block is not a cry for space; it is an act of self-preservation. It is a necessary and healthy boundary. In these situations, the desire to get your ex back is often rooted not in love, but in a trauma bond, a powerful and destructive attachment that can be difficult to break. If you are in this situation, I implore you, with all the love in my heart, to shift your focus from getting them back to getting yourself back. Your priority must be your safety and your healing. The spiritual work to be done here is not about reconciliation with your ex, but about reclaiming your power, healing your wounds, and learning to recognize and attract the healthy, respectful love you truly deserve. There are many resources available to help you, and I urge you to seek them out. Your spirit deserves to be cherished and protected, not broken.

A Clear and Consistent Message of Non-Interest

Sometimes, the block is not an isolated act. It is the final step in a long series of actions that have clearly communicated a lack of interest. Perhaps they have told you, clearly and repeatedly, that they do not want to be in a relationship. Perhaps they have already moved on and are in a happy, committed relationship with someone else. In these cases, the block is not a sign of emotional turmoil; it is a sign of finality. It is their last resort to get you to hear the message that they have been trying to send. To continue to pursue them in the face of such clear signals is to disrespect their autonomy and to prolong your own suffering.

In these moments, the most loving act you can perform is to accept their decision with grace. This is not a failure. It is a redirection. The universe is closing one door to guide you to another, one that leads to a love that is freely and joyfully given. The pain of this acceptance is real, but it is a clean pain, a pain that leads to healing and new beginnings. The pain of a futile chase, on the other hand, is a stagnant, festering wound that can poison your spirit for years. Trust that there is a beautiful plan for your life, a plan that may not include this person. Have the courage to let go and to walk towards the future that is waiting for you. And if you need help in finding the strength to do so, know that my guidance is available not just for reconciliation, but for healing and moving forward as well. You can learn more about my approach to love and relationships by exploring how love spells work.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is it really possible to get my ex back if they blocked me on everything?

Yes, it is absolutely possible, my dear friend. I have seen it happen countless times in my 30+ years of experience. A block feels so final in our digital world, but in the realm of the spirit, it is merely a temporary barrier. It is often a sign of deep pain and emotional overwhelm, not a sign of indifference. The love and energetic connection you shared do not simply vanish. Through a combination of giving them space, working on your own spiritual and personal growth, and, if you choose, the gentle assistance of love spells, you can create an environment where their heart can soften and they become open to reconnecting. The key is to not act from a place of panic, but from a place of calm, confident, and loving intention. The path requires patience, but a joyful reunion is a very real possibility.

How long should I wait before trying to contact my ex after they blocked me?

This is a very important question. The period of no-contact is crucial. I generally recommend a minimum of 30 days of absolute silence. This means no calls, no texts, no attempts to reach out through friends or other platforms. This period is not about punishing them; it is a sacred time for healing for both of you. It allows the intense, raw emotions to cool down. It gives them the space they have so desperately, if clumsily, asked for. And most importantly, it gives you the time to focus on your own healing, to reconnect with yourself, and to shift your energy from one of neediness to one of wholeness. Rushing this process is the most common mistake I see. Be patient. Trust that this time of silence is a powerful, active step on your path to reconciliation.

The unbreakable spiritual bond: Golden energy connects two souls, transcending physical and digital walls.
The unbreakable spiritual bond: Golden energy connects two souls, transcending physical and digital walls.

Will a love spell force my ex to come back to me?

This is a common and understandable concern. The answer is no. The authentic, ethical love spells that I practice are not about forcing or manipulating anyone. True love cannot be built on coercion. Instead, think of my spells as a form of powerful, focused spiritual healing. They work to cleanse the negative energy and emotional debris that is blocking the connection between you. They gently remind your ex’s heart of the love and happiness you shared, and they amplify the positive, loving energy that you are cultivating within yourself. The spells open a door; they do not force anyone to walk through it. They create an opportunity for reconciliation by dissolving the anger and pain, allowing your ex’s own free will and loving feelings to lead them back to you.

What if I try all of this and my ex still doesn’t unblock me?

This is a difficult but important possibility to consider. The path of spiritual work and personal growth is, first and foremost, for you. The primary goal is your own healing and wholeness. If, after dedicating yourself to this path, your ex remains distant, it does not mean your efforts were wasted. You will have transformed yourself into a more centered, confident, and spiritually radiant person. You will have healed the wounds of the breakup and raised your own vibration. Sometimes, the universe closes one door to guide us to a better one. It may be that this relationship has served its purpose in your life’s journey, and you are now being prepared for a new, more aligned love to enter. Trust in this divine redirection. Your newfound strength and inner peace will be the foundation for all the beautiful things that are to come, whether with your ex or on a new and exciting path.

How do I know if the block is temporary or a final decision?

Discerning the nature of the block requires a combination of observation and intuition. A block that comes suddenly after an intense argument is often a temporary, reactive measure—a cry for space. However, if the block is the culmination of many clear conversations where your ex stated their desire to end the relationship, or if they have moved on to a serious new partnership, it is more likely to be a final boundary. Pay attention to the context. More importantly, pay attention to your own intuition. As you do your spiritual work and quiet your mind, your inner wisdom will become clearer. If you are still unsure, a spiritual reading can often provide clarity on the energetic state of the connection and the likelihood of reconciliation. I am always here to offer such guidance in a free consultation.

What is the first thing I should say if my ex finally unblocks me?

This is a critical moment, and your approach should be one of gentle restraint. The goal is to be a calm, positive presence, not to immediately overwhelm them with your emotions or questions. Do not start with “Why did you block me?” or “I miss you so much.” Instead, send a short, light, and pressure-free message. A simple, warm text like, “Hey, I was just thinking about that hilarious time we [shared memory]. Made me smile. Hope you’re doing well,” is perfect. It’s positive, it doesn’t demand a response, and it re-establishes contact on a pleasant note. This shows that you are not holding onto anger and that you are in a good, stable emotional place. It makes it easy and safe for them to engage with you again, paving the way for deeper conversations later on.

My dear friend, the path to reconciliation is a journey of the heart, a testament to the enduring power of love. It is a path that requires courage, patience, and faith. But you do not have to walk it alone. If you are ready to take the next step, to explore how ancient wisdom and spiritual guidance can help you heal your relationship, I invite you to reach out. I offer a free consultation to all who seek my help. Let us speak, and let us begin the sacred work of rekindling the flame of your love.

With warmth and blessings,

Baba Ali

Contact me today for a free consultation:
Phone: (210) 651-2737
WhatsApp: +1 (616) 308-6798
Email: contact@spellstogetmyexback.com

I am a proud member of the African National Healers Association and the National Spiritual Alliance, and I was honored to be named the Best African Love Spell Caster in both 2020 and 2022. My services are offered with a unique promise: there is no charge for the spell casting itself. You only cover the cost of the materials required for your specific ritual. Any further compensation is a voluntary donation, offered only after you have seen the results you desire. Your happiness is my purpose. I look forward to guiding you.

Building a bridge of light back to your ex, even after being blocked, through spiritual means.
Building a bridge of light back to your ex, even after being blocked, through spiritual means.
Baba Ali - Master Love Spell Caster

About Baba Ali

Baba Ali is an award-winning African love spell caster with over 30 years of experience helping individuals across the United States reunite with their lost loves. He is a member of the African National Healers Association and the National Spiritual Alliance.

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